ENTRE NOUS-Debra Ollivier

My sister introduced me to this book she bought at Anthropologie called Entre Nous.
The minute I saw that it was a ‘guide to finding your inner French woman’, I knew I’d love it and it would remind me of my roots. I grew up with a vibrant, playful, cultured, beautiful mother who was passionate about everything and anything (to the point where finding a certain rock in the woods would bring her joy). Growing up she’d never leave the house without looking her best, dipped her croissant in her coffee every morning, made 4-course sit-down meals with the richest of ingredients, didn’t talk much about her problems with others, danced around the house to French music and above all qualities of a French woman was always late!
Entre Nous was such a great a reminder of how fun and interesting life should be!
It gives you a whole new perspective on the difference between North-American culture versus French culture. Quality is way more important in many aspects from food to clothing, beauty regimens to the friends you keep close. Taking the time out of your day to sit and eat a proper meal or enjoy a cappuccino is much more valuable than saving a few minutes by grabbing take-out. Oh, and passion is a must! All senses must be stimulated and French women find sensuality in everything–food, art, music, social settings and even by just looking in the mirror!
These types of books are great because they’re a quick reminder to take time to focus on you, to live life happier, sexier and live life the way YOU want to live it.
Here are some quotes from the book that I loved!
“Sexy is a state of mind.”
“The French girl moves through life as a grown up.”
“It’s not about luxury, it’s about maintenance.” (referring to beauty treatments such as manicures, facials, skin care etc.)
“To see in the ordinary a flash of extraordinary; to transform the usual into unusual.” (In reference to Jean-Paul Gaultier uniting with Tati)
“Not only how she looks in her clothes but how she feels in them.”
“Pieces purchased one by one that slowly build up a quality wardrobe through discretion.”
“She’s chosen everything in her closet with her trademark discretion.”
“One of the eminently practical attributes of the French girl’s sense of self-possession and her rejection of the quick fix is her way with men. Where they don’t find fulfillment in a man, Cecile argues, they find it elsewhere. ‘If the shoe doesn’t fit, you don’t buy it. Your foot isn’t going to change its shape, right? Same goes for men. If he’s not right for you, drop him. Unless you want to walk around in pain, you move on to new merchandise. It’s really that simple, no?’”
“We’re French, so we love to love. But we’re also Cartesian, so we can put things in an intellectual perspective and detach. A little detachment goes a long way in marriage.’
“There are no beans to spill here, no heart aching on her shirtsleeve.”
“And how can one word-aimer in French- mean both to like and to love, when in between the two feelings lies a whole world of emotional intensity.”
Entre Nous is available at Chapters Indigo as well as online.
xoxo,
Lowe
