lowe-down: initial eye contact
A bunch of us ladies were in an airport waiting on our plane having a long conversation about how people should open their mind to new things. The conversation went in the direction of thinking outside the box when it comes to the types of guys you’d typically go for. Is it that we know what we like? If we’ve never tried something different, how do we know we don’t like it? Do we assume that other types of guys don’t like us?
There are so many question as to why we go for what we go for, but I guess the answer is in just trying.
We took the flight, got off the plane and went to grab our bags. On the way out, a TDH (tall dark and handsome) man (totally not my girlfriends type but definitely a good looking guy) was walking past us, and when he saw my girlfriend, it was like he found his princess. He was awestruck and she had the nerve to look down and keep it moving and add ‘omg he’s so hot’. What? Hello??? How is he going to put himself out there and approach someone who clearly has given him no indication that she is interested?
Initial Eye Contact.
If you’re looking to meet new people or expand your ‘repertoire’, please, if a man looks at you and you like what you see, don’t look down and keep walking. Throw him a half smile or smile with your eyes or something. This will give him a bit of confidence if he decides to approach you and it’s a cute flirtatious gesture.
xoxo,
Lowe
































